To the woman who loved him before me
Sometimes something happens in life that makes it time to post this poem again that I wrote three years ago. 💁🏻♀️Also don’t @ me without reading the whole thing. 🌞
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To the woman who loved him before me.
I see you
liking every picture
that still carries the
ghost of him.
No matter if it’s
himself or his family
or something he created
and how you carefully tiptoe
around everything that wears
a taste, a mention, a vision
of me.
My little eye spies
how even after five
(or is it six)
years you still obsess
and obsess over him
and now over me too,
even though you fall asleep
in the arms of your own
husband every night.
Does he know
how your mind wanders
and your hands too
From my throat
to your keyboard
Does he know
that he is not
the husband you are
thinking about
but that you are
emailing mine
‘Hey, long time’
My god, how I must
haunt you for you to
make such desperate,
obvious attempts to
get him to notice you.
I want to hate you
for constantly trying
to crawl back into his life.
Not in full but with a memory,
a reminder, that you were
once there too.
Yes, I could tell you many things
about the way he whispers to me at night, about his confessions
that he has never been
this happy before.
But the truth is, if he would
leave me the way he left you
I would go a little crazy too.
I would obsess for all the years
to come if there was something
I could have done different,
done more. Your grief is one
I never hope to feel.
So instead, let me thank you
for all you have done. For
taking care of him in the years
I wasn’t yet there to hold.
For teaching him,
for helping him grow.
None of us wants to be reminded
of past lovers, yet none of us
would be here without them.
You loved him and cared for him
now please, allow me to do the same too.
Without the ghost of you.
Art and caption by: @danica.gim